Ladies! Here are five things you shouldn’t say to your man during sex
Ladies! You could be a total dynamo or a prude in bed, either way, sex can sometimes be demanding and confusing. So if you’ve been with your partner over a fairly long period of time, you’re probably in-sync with what he likes, what you like and the works.
All the things better left unsaid when you’re both getting it on…
However, if you’re in a relatively new relationship and have not yet explored each other’s sexual virtues and vices, this article might come handy. Now everyone has a different type of sex drive, and figuring out your partner’s type will make your life a whole lot easier and your sex a whole lot better. And while that whole process may take a while, here’s some advice on where you can start…
When a couple communicates regularly, they tend to understand each other better and how to please each other to the max.
Talking during sex is not everyone’s cup of tea, but if you’re the kind who enjoys it and wants to initiate it to test the waters, make sure you know what you’re doing. Sometimes it doesn’t take much to turn someone off, especially if you’re blurting out things that throw him off. If you’re going to go there – do it well.
It is hard to imagine a man that does not like a woman that is vocal in bed.
And the things guys want to hear during sex range from pleasurable moans, how well they are doing and dirty talk [for those that find such things sexy.]
The list actually stretches further, but this article aims to focus on something else – what are the things women should not say during sex?
So to help you out, we’ve rounded off the top things that you should absolutely refrain from saying during a hot lovemaking session. Take note, ladies!
1. Do you love me?
As you might have heard, sex is more physical for men and emotional for women. And while clarifying issues of the heart is not a bad thing, many men would rather have you discuss it before or after sex… Not during.
Emotional matters are best left for after sex. Another option is to do it before sex.
2. What are we now?
Women usually reserve this question till after sex, but for some reason, some babes pop it during the act. Let’s assume you didn’t know men find it unsexy. Now you do. So, maybe stop it?
3. What are you trying to do?
This is after you have probably been kissing and touching his body and letting him feel your body for about 10 or 15 minutes.
Please, ladies, stop asking this question because, of course, you know he’s not trying to undress you for academic or medical purposes! So why ruin the moment with this kind of question?
4. Do you think I’m overweight?
Weight is one sensitive issue that many women are insecure about, and this, of course, is what makes them ask the question.
But, hey, aren’t you all having sex already? Doesn’t that tell you that he has no qualms about what your body looks or feels like?
It’s better to clear this issue before you both get naked. Seriously. Besides, there are men who love big women. When in doubt, just assume he’s one of those guys and enjoy the moment.
Even if he now happens to not like your body, the best time to discuss it is not during sex. Please wait till afterwards. Don’t douse your partner’s sexual urge by ruining the mood with an unnecessary, ill-timed conversation.
5. What about the money I asked for?
LOL. Think this is just plain and simple blackmail, really. Women know men would say and grant any request during sex, and they just exploit it.
Later, these same women will say men are scum.
Extra things not to say during the act
1) Aren’t you done?
2) “I can’t feel it!”
3 “You woke me up for that?”
4) “You’re being taped!”
5) “But whipped cream is fattening!”
6) “Can you please pass me the remote control?”
7) “Don’t ruin my makeup”
8) “Let’s not kiss.”
9) “Are you in?”
10) “Why am I doing all the work?”
11) “My ex loved this!
12) “Perhaps you’re just out of practice…”
13) “Okay, stop! I gotta go.”
14) “I have a confession…”
15) “When would you like to meet my parents?”
16) “You’re not hard enough.”
17) “Are you going to cum?”
18) “How many people have you slept with?”
19) “I’m bored.”
20) “Do you smell something burning?”