Is he cheating on me?
Signs he is cheating! You have this vibe that something is just off. You don’t know what it is, but something tells you that your man is secretly with another woman. Is he cheating on me? In this article, you will learn 13 signs he is definitely cheating on you.
Maybe there are clues or maybe it’s just a nagging, gut instinct. You might try not to think about it because every time it crosses your mind, it makes you feel sick.
You’re out with your guy, and he keeps anxiously looking at his cellphone. Odd, he never texts you as much as he is currently texting the person, he is right now. He excuses himself… And takes his phone.
Maybe you’re just feeling slightly uneasy about something your boyfriend is doing—or he’s just acting super suss. Here are 13 unmistakable signs he is cheating on you:
1. He is using his phone a lot more and not for you
If he suddenly starts texting more often, but he still takes forever to reply to you… That may be a sign that he’s cheating. It doesn’t mean he is definitely cheating on you. He could just be having an important conversation too.
2. He suddenly cares about his hygiene
You’ve known him long enough to know how he typically cares for himself. If he takes a sudden interest in how he looks, his physical health, and even starts showering more, who is he trying to impress? Is he trying to impress you or someone else?
3. He goes out more
Whether he’s going out “with friends” or has something come up with family, this could be a red flag that he’s really seeing someone else.
4. He keeps working late
Sudden work emergency? Big project that he didn’t tell you about in advance? If he starts working overtime and is hours on sporadic days of the week working late, he might not actually be working.
5. He avoids getting close to you
If you notice that your guy suddenly avoids intimacy with you (or stops entirely), that’s a huge red flag. Some men who fear intimacy will cheat to feel as if they still have power over their sex life, and some men cheat simply because they want someone “young and new”.
6. He’s selfish
If your man is self-indulgent and puts himself before everything, never compromising with you, he could be the kind of guy to cheat, as infidelity is a selfish act on its own.
7. He follows a lot of sexy women on social media
Have you noticed him “liking” a lot of sexy pictures on his Facebook? What about who he watches on Instagram? If they’re mostly hot young women, you can probably guess what’s on his mind…
8. He didn’t update his dating profile (even if you started dating him)
Maybe you met on Plenty of Fish, or eHarmony, ChristianMingle, or even Match. You updated your profile to proudly show you met a guy you love… And he didn’t update his profile. That could be a sign he’s still looking for someone else.
9. You don’t recognize a new bedroom move
Maybe he’s been watching porn. Or maybe he picked that up from doing the deed with someone else. There might be new ‘tricks’ he picked up from his new side hustle and now want to try out with you.
10. He suddenly has a password on his phone
If he didn’t before, it’s not necessarily ideal that he does now. He might make up a few excuses for doing this, telling you that he’ll fix it, but he never does.
11. The bathroom is becoming his favourite place
It could mean cheating if he suddenly started going to the bathroom to brush his teeth or take a shower before greeting you when he comes home.
12. Subtle disinterests in sex
If you feel a shift in romantic energy or if he just doesn’t seem interested in having sex with you anyway. Perhaps because he’s getting sex from somewhere else?
13. His attire changes
Your partner doesn’t need an excuse for making a little extra effort in the clothes department, but if he’s going all-out on nicer outfits for no apparent reason, it could be a sign you’re being cheated on.