How to Tell a Karmic Relationship

What is a Karmic Relationship

How to tell a karmic relationship

What is a karmic relationship? In this article you will learn how to tell a karmic relationship. While the phrase “karmic relationship” isn’t a clinical term, the characteristics do resemble other, well-known relationships. You’re not alone if you’ve ever felt a link that resembles a magnetic connection but has a stormy twist. Passion and suffering are frequently present in karmic relationships at the same time.

“A karmic relationship is one that is intensely passionate yet very challenging to maintain.,” explains Dr. Mclee Tembo. He claims that although these partnerships aren’t designed to continue, the individuals in them may learn from them.

While “karmic relationship” can have a negative connotation, Dr. Mclee says it can also be viewed from the perspective of personal growth.

“They provide you the chance to discover new things about yourself and teach you the most important lessons about love in life.,” he says.

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How karmic relationships manifest

Before you even realize you’re in a karmic relationship, there’s a strong possibility you’ll already be in the middle of it.

It’s a romance that both couples seem unable to resist, as seen by its pattern of breakups and reunions., says Dr. Mclee Tembo, a marriage counselor and sex and relationship therapist.

“Even if everyone around them is urging them to end it, it clings both partners strongly. Despite the harm done to both, they don’t seem to be able to let go of each other,” he explains.

There’s usually an instant connection in a karmic relationship, and for some inexplicable reason, you feel magnetically drawn to the other person and like you can’t live without them.

You also feel destined to be with the other person and can’t understand why it’s not working out, because this person feels perfect for you. This makes it very difficult to see your partner’s flaws.

A karmic relationship is not limited to a love partner, though. This kind of connection can also be felt with a friend, a quick contact, or your own family.

Signs of a karmic relationship

It might be difficult to recognize a karmic relationship, especially while you’re involved in one. Along with the characteristics mentioned above, there are other telltale indicators and warning signals that might point to a karmic tie.

Roller coaster of emotions

One of the most common signs of a karmic relationship, says Dr. Mclee Tembo, is the roller coaster of emotions. This typically follows a pattern of happiness one day but misery the next.

Any tiny quarrel or hiccup on the road might seem like the end of the world when you’re in a karmic tie. Although every relationship experiences ups and downs, tough times in a karmic relationship seem like a constant weight on your chest.

Resembles a codependent relationship

Karmic relationships often resemble codependent relationships because they create dependency, which Dr. Mclee Tembo says ends up consuming all your thoughts and feelings.

You might also feel “addicted” or “dependent” on the relationship, making it very difficult for you or or the other person to break it off. Even with alarm bells ringing in your head, you can’t resist staying.

One-sided relationship

Karmic relationships are often toxic and one-sided. This can lead to one person being self-serving and the other doing everything in their power to keep them happy.

Fearful of how it’ll end

Sometimes it’s easier to deal with an unhealthy relationship than face what may happen once it’s over. Someone in a karmic relationship is often fearful of what will happen or who they’ll turn into once it ends.

Purpose of a karmic relationship

A karmic matchup has two goals: to end the patterns of negative conduct from previous lives and to learn how to heal.

“At the core of all of this, the purpose of karmic relationships is to learn and grow,” says Dr. Mclee Tembo.

“According to some, karmic partnerships are agreements between two souls to support one another’s growth before reincarnating on Earth so that we might learn something we were unable to learn in a previous incarnation,” he adds.

With that in mind, karmic relationships are very different from other intense relationships, such as one with a soulmate. People often confuse karmic partners with soulmates, and they aren’t the same.

Karmic relationships teach you about the world and others, whereas your soulmates help you learn your self-worth.

You feel good, balanced, and happy in a soulmate relationship. But in a karmic relationship, you’ll always feel like something is just not right.

The purpose of a karmic relationship is to advance the soul forward in this lifetime.

“I believe the most important thing to know about karmic relationships is that you (your soul) has chosen to learn this lesson for its advancement toward knowing, enlightenment, and understanding,” Dr. Mclee Tembo explains.

Although the lesson you learn in your karmic relationship may be difficult, and it may cause you great pain in the short-term, it develops your soul and moves you toward greater peace.

But you must also remember that your soul provides karmic experiences for others that you may be unaware of, and sometimes you receive the lesson, and sometimes you give the soul lesson.

How to walk away 

Walking away from an unhealthy relationship can be difficult — especially if you’re leaving because the partnership is abusive, codependent, or just isn’t serving you anymore.

And ending a relationship, especially a karmic one, is far from easy. Significant strength is required to break away from the kind of intense connection that exists in the victim/victimizer and codependent dynamic.

Even though such cycles are destructive, the partners feel comfortable due to growing up with a distorted definition of love and self-value. Because of this, support is a vital factor in making the transition.

“The best way to move on from these kinds of situations is to recognize the lesson from it,” says Dr. Mclee Tembo.

His advice? Focus on you, your self-worth, and your self-respect.

“If your relationship doesn’t seem to prosper without you at your best self, you should act on it,” he explains.

Remember, these relationships are born out of conflict and will most likely end in conflict. “They’re toxic and unhealthy,” he adds.

Give yourself some alone time to reflect on the event and improve. If you enter another relationship too soon, Dr. Mclee Tembo says you’ll likely fall into the same karmic patterns. “When you cut the cord and learn your lesson, you break free from the karmic bond forever,” he explains.

The good news is you’ve already experienced the hardships of the relationship and now it’s time to learn from your mistakes.

“In order to bring balance back into your life, try not to approach this from a place of resentment or blame but rather accept full responsibility for your deeds and your part in the relationship,” adds Dr. Mclee Tembo.

Tips for healthy communication 

Creating a safe space for honest conversation is a critical component of a healthy relationship.

Healthy communication is both positive and assertive. It expresses personal experience, desires, wishes, and concerns.

Effective communication focuses on positive changes and outcomes instead of negative expressions that use judgment, criticism, and blame.

Also, healthy communication is empowering, says Dr. Mclee Tembo, because it clearly defines the way forward and expresses conviction in achieving it.

Part of healthy communication is the ability to recognize nonverbal cues. We often say more with our body language than we do with our words.

That’s why Dr. Mclee Tembo says It’s crucial to read your partner’s body language, pay attention to nonverbal signs, and be conscious of your own.

It’s best to keep neutral body language and eye contact when having an honest conversation with your friends, family, and partner.

And lastly, in order to have a relationship built on open communication, each partner must pay close attention to what the other has to say.

In order to do this well, you must stop thinking about what you’re going to say next while the other person is speaking.

Bottom line

You’ll never forget having a karmic relationship with someone, whether it be in a romantic relationship or a bond with a friend or family member. In fact, the lessons you learn from these passionate yet volatile relationships are what helps propel you forward as you enter into new partnerships.

That said, if you’re being mistreated, or you’re unsure of how to escape an unhealthy relationship, it’s critical that you reach out and ask for help. Talk to a trusted friend or family member, or make an appointment with a therapist. Read Karmic Relationship Signs, Meaning, Stages and Ending